5 things fit guys (and girls) don’t want to hear
So you somehow scored the date that you wanted and its time to push aside all distractions, and possibly sex, to do some talking. Unless you want the person running the other way, here is what NOT to say to a guy who is into training.
Guys don’t want to hear…
1- “I hate exercise, I will never do that”
What it means: That your either frumpy or have the luck of the draw for a while, but time will run out. When it does you might be left wishing you would have done it before.
What they hear: That you are whinny, lazy, and likely high maintenance.
2- “I don’t want to sweat”
What it means: Your insecure that your gallons of makeup will run and they will see the true you.
What they hear: That you shouldn’t be seen in the morning light of day.
3- “I hate healthy food, its so bland”
What it means: You have no desire to try new things and lack change in your life.
What they hear: Low class tastebuds and can’t cook.
4- “Why do you spend all your time at the gym without me?”
What it means: You don’t know who you are without a boyfriend.
What they hear: You aren’t supporting a huge part of their life
5- “Does she have a better body than me?”
What it means: You are always fishing for a compliment that you never believe.
What they hear: That the only way you will ever be happy is if everyone else is below you.
Girls don’t want to hear…
1- “I’ve put a little on since high school”
What it means: That your prone to get over things unless highly motivated by social acceptance.
What they hear: If you start working out, it may be for another girl.
2- “I hate girls with muscle”
What it means: You find women with obvious muscle to be unattractive.
What they hear: Never lift a weight if you want to be seen as hot.
3- “I don’t like you training around all those guys, can’t you join a women’s gym?”
What it means: Your insecure about what the other stud dudes have to offer in a world she spends most of her time in.
What they hear: You are not secure (and she needs someone secure, not a whiny baby); and that you don’t take their workouts seriously.
4- “Don’t change, your fine the way you are”
What it means: You don’t like change in someone that you love.
What they hear: If they change they may lose you.
5- “I like a girl that eats”
What it means: You don’t like girls who whine about their diets, but you would never date a fat ass so you are a hypocrite.
What they hear: That everything they eat in front of you will bring a judgment.
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